Navigating the Nonsense:
How to Not Get Lost in the Swirl of Their Underfunctioning
A Relationship-Changing Masterclass with Dr. Ashley Southard
You're not crazy ~ but their nonsense sure makes you feel that way.
One moment, they're the "nice guy," promising to do better.
The next, they're defensive, dismissive, and blaming you for everything.
They twist conversations, dodge responsibility, and somehow, you always end up feeling like the problem.
You've spent years (decades?) trying to explain, reason, and be a "better communicator"...but nothing ever changes.
Naturally, you are exhausted, confused, and burnt out.
And now, you're wondering, "Is it even possible to have a healthy, mature relationship with this person?"
The only way to find out is to stop playing by their ridiculous rules of engagement.
And that's exactly what I'll teach you how to do in this Masterclass.
I know this nonsense so well because I lived it.
For years, I got sucked into the same circular, mind-numbing conversations.
I over-explained myself, hoping this time they’d understand.
I agonized over the right words, thinking if I just said it the right way, they’d finally take me seriously.
And every time, I left the conversation feeling more drained, more resentful, and more confused than when we started.
But after 20+ years of trying everything I could think of to be a "better communicator," I finally realized...
This wasn't about my communication skills. This was about their refusal to take responsibility.
It wasn't that I wasn't being clear. It was that they didn't want to hear me ~ because then they'd have to do something.
These realizations changed everything for me.
What you'll learn in this Masterclass:
The Playbook of the Underfunctioning Partner ~ understand their go-to strategis for dodging accountability, so you never get blindsided again
Why They Keep You Stuck in Their Swirl ~ learn the psychology behind their behavior and why they blame, guilt-trip, and manipulate instead of stepping up
10 Unique & Powerful Strategies to Sidestep the Nonsense ~ no more falling into their emotional traps; you'll learn how to disengage with clarity, confidence, and self-respect
What a Healthy, Mature Relationship Actually Looks Like ~ because you need to know that you're NOT asking for too much.
Dealing with an Underfunctioning Partner requires a completely different skill set than what you do with most everyone else in your life ~ and this class will give you those skills!
>>> Enroll now and get LIFETIME ACCESS! <<<
"But what if my Underfunctioning Partner never changes?"
Good news: This class isn't about "fixing" them ~ it's about empowering you.
Whether you stay, go, or aren’t sure yet, these strategies will transform how you engage with them ~ and how much power they (no longer) have over you.
This masterclass is for you if you’re:
Still in the relationship and trying to figure out if things can improve
Considering leaving but want more clarity before making the decision
Single and determined to not repeat this pattern again
In a healthy relationship but want to make sure you never fall back into Overfunctioning
Here's what you get immediately upon enrollment:
2 hrs of Professional Education
($500 value)
I have been a psychotherapist specializing in trauma and couple relationships for over 20 years. I have also been a University Instructor at three prestigious universities. This course is the perfect blend of my professional expertise coupled with my natural love of teaching. It is organized, clearly presented, and jam-packed with game-changing information.
1 hr
Bonus Q&A Episode
($250 value)
A full hour of extra insights where I answer the most pressing questions from women just like you who are also navigating the nonsense. We cover topics like managing your own emotions when they make you so mad, physical intimacy, when money is used to control you, and protecting kids from the nonsense without Overfunctioning.
A Gorgeous
PDF Reference Guide
($47 value)
No need to take notes! You get a beautifully designed, easy-to-follow 31-page reference guide to keep you on track. Use this to refer back to for quick reminders, and as a study guide for learning the skills and strategies so you can implement them consistently with your partner.
This isn’t just another relationship class.
>>> It’s a survival guide for your sanity. <<<
Women are RAVING about this class!
Hundreds of women have already taken this class, and their transformations speak for themselves.
"How long will I be able to access the class?"
FOR THE LIFETIME OF THE PROGRAM
The Self-Restoration Journey is an ever-evolving process. Every time you go through the course, you will take away new insights. I want this to be a tool that you can always go back to when you're in need of a little tune-up.
And you will always get the most updated version of the class as new content is added!
More words of gratitude & encouragement from Self-Restoring Women who have taken this class and are D-O-N-E with the nonsense...
Want a sneak peek inside the class?
Here's a 2-minute clip I know will resonate with you.
Ready to stop getting lost in their chaos, and start creating your own peace?
If you’re tired of...
The exhausting back-and-forth conversations that lead nowhere
The confusion, guilt, and resentment they stir up in you
Feeling like you’re losing yourself in their dysfunction
...then this masterclass was made for YOU!